I just don't see why everything has to become an argument. Maybe it's because I'm coming from the FMA fandom and have become sensitive to wank. And...well, I'd also been considering GL fandom to be a safe haven from that kind of stuff, because overall it's been wonderful.
I guess my point is: so what if the other side is immature and wrong. IGNORE THEM. There is a time and place for these things.
EDIT: While I'm at it, I'll also go ahead and say that it does annoy me how there are so many vocal anonymous supporters of Nia and Simon/Nia and yet it feels like 7thisgod and I are the only ones keeping simon_nia alive. Why do stupid Nia-haters get all the comments while we're just left talking to ourselves?